Showing posts with label Frustration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Frustration. Show all posts

Monday, February 18, 2013

How to be Cool

Am I Cool?

Oh yes, no doubt about it.
I wear trendy shoes, hip clothes, talk the current slang, and where ever I go, I make heads turn.
Cool, huh!

So, what does Cool actually mean?

Does cool mean being in the trend, being in the era, acting like the younger generation?

Is it the above or is there something deeper to it?

A person's attitude makes one stylish. How a person reacts in happiness and sorrow gets him a score of how cool he is. His caring for others, his connectivity with others, his self belief and confidence in any situation mark the person's personality.

Clothes, shoes are all temporary things. Fashion comes and goes, for how long can a man sustain to all the changes happening in the fashion industry. His pocket will not allow him to be an ardent follower, because with a wink of an eye, technology and fashion changes. One who consumes all the latest gadgets and fashionable clothes is not considered trendy. But, a person whose personality ignites a room full of fashionable people is considered trendy. This person will light up a dark room, and he will be the coolest person around even if he is wearing such outdated clothes according to the fashion police.

Ponder upon the below...

Now, next time when you have a party to go to and your wardrobe is outdated. Think again, how can I steal the thunder of the party? No,  worries.

You can upgrade yourself by wearing a bright smile, a caring attitude, and be an honest person with self awareness. This can make you look more appealing than people with the latest clothesline. As the saying goes, that the beauty lies deep, and it's not just superficial. We should have that kind of perspective towards life. Always on the go with confidence, perkiness, self-awareness, honest and good by the heart.

Mantra for today: A Materialistic life knows no boundaries, and usually leads to Frustration.

Friday, February 15, 2013

Frustration!

It is Friday, Finish the Sentence Friday Blog Hop #7

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 “I feel so frustrated when Life offers me Stones instead of Lemons that I dreamt of"

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We are such talented souls and have carved out distinct plans for our selves and our future. However, Destiny has something else in store for us, and when we don't see what we want, we tend to get Frustrated.

I have had many frustrated moments in my life especially when I am climbing the ladder of my dream, there comes a large stone in my path, which makes me stop, halt and even take a different route. There goes my ambitions and my planning for a particular goal that I dreamt of.

Oh! how frustrating that is!

I have heard my self cry out loud, "Why ME?"

But, then the route that I was forced to take; has shown me a path that is fresh and has given me joy in a remarkably different way. 

It has helped spark my inner self and gave me a beautiful meaning to my existence.

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Oh Frustration,

You have your own darn way to stop me;

From my Goals in life.

You took me on a path that is least trod upon;

I felt so lonely and desolate.

But, either Time was a healer or you turned around for me;

And made that approach green, and showered it with joy around.

Oh Frustration, you can be so darn cruel at times, but I know that you have your own sweet way to make me reach the Goal I should be actually having in this life.

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Mantra for today: Frustration has a Motive; Reflect upon it.