Thursday, November 15, 2012

How to be an Amazing Person?

We should be surrounded by some simple adjectives that can help magnify our personality and also accentuate our inner self.

Some simple traits, which could make an everlasting impression:
  • To Listen--lend your ear to your friends and family members.
  • Be considerate-try not to judge them when they are speaking their heart out.
  • Give options-they are in a difficult state of mind and must be puzzled. Do not impose your thoughts on them instead, give them options.
  • Depart with a smile or a hug--that always assures them that you were delighted to help them out and not obliged.
  •  Keep in touch--try to contact them every now and inquire about their status.
Rule of the world: People flock where there is happiness.

Unfortunately, nothing is constant. Today if that person is happy, there will he sorrow surrounding him tomorrow.

Stick to your principles and be an exception.

Break the rules and be near those friends or family members who are in utmost need of emotional caring. They will cherish those memories of you when you were sticking to them during hard times rather than joining in with their laughter's.


Mantra for today: Nothing is permanent

6 comments:

Janine Huldie said...

Again a very beautiful sentiment and I try very hard to live my life accordingly and to treat others the way I would want to be treated, as per the way I was raised by my mother. That said, your post is so very true!!

OhBoyMom said...

I take relationships and friendships very seriously so I strongly believe in all that you listed, especially the last one. I think, especially in this electronic age, where we rely on technology so much, that we should have no excuse not to maintain contact with those who are important to us, whether via email, text, phone, etc. It's all at our fingertips now and therefore, so are our friends and family...

Cari Lorine said...

It is amazing how much kindness can rub off on people. I remember people from years and years ago who showed me kindness, and you're right -- I think they are absolutely amazing! Great post, Ruchira!

Clark Farley said...

'specially like the thought about allowing for maximum options!
Very Good Post

Cynthia said...

I keep seeing messages like this. :) Guess I'll have to take it to heart. ;0)

Unknown said...

Such an inspirational message! Well done!