Showing posts with label infidelity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label infidelity. Show all posts

Monday, August 12, 2013

How important is infidelity in a Relationship

Last week I saw two movies that revolved around relationships.

In the first one, the couple was happily married until the guy goes on a business trip and lets loose and gets intimate with someone local. When his partner finds out, hell breaks loose; leading to a divorce.

Second movie, the couple have an open relationship and live happily under the same roof. However, there are times when the couple strives for integrity.

A relationship between a couple can withstand all turmoil of life if there is honesty, faithfulness, sincerity, loyalty and confidence in each other.

In the latter movie, even though the couple was in an open relationship there was this hiccup somewhere between them wishing to be just by themselves and not share themselves with anyone else. That attachment between a couple makes them wanna spend the rest of their lives with each other. If that goes missing, there are chances that the above adjectives that help glue a marriage together will loose its stickum to keep them together.

Thus, an adultery in a relationship cannot survive even though pacts are made in the open.

As the saying goes...sharing is caring, but, not in the case of a partnership, whose foundation lies on a special affection.

Mantra for today: Attachment towards each other works as a clamp, and helps keep a relationship intact.


Thursday, June 27, 2013

What is the significance of a wedding ring?

Humans fall under many categories with respect to commitment and spending life together, and how they define their love and integrity towards each other, is priceless.

A ring and some vows keep the integrity of a couple.

The above makes them spend years together and rely on each other as they grieve and dance to the tunes of life.

Amazing!

However, this same ring and vows mean nothing for some individuals. The uprightness of virtues go missing and vanish into thin air as the hearts go astray with other bodies.

The bottom line towards honesty with each other lies in the consciousness, and how an individual allows people to walk over it. Some people are unaware and take their relationship for granted thus, the rise of infidelity.

There are some who do not need a ring to stay faithful to their partner. However, they stay loyal to their better halves and the vows they recited when tying the knot.

Question for you: Does man need reminders to stay faithful or his consciousness is enough to prick him when he goes astray?

My 2 cents
Being human is another form of consciousness. Do not let that awareness die within you. It is like dying before the body gives up!

Mantra for today: Your consciousness is the gateway to freedom of all sorrows. Keep those gates open 24/7.